Queen You Should Know: Life Coach Shawn

Shawnda Patterson better known as Life Coach Shawn, is a motivational speaker, dating coach and author of the best selling books, “The Dating Game: How To Find Yourself While Looking For Mr. Right” and “Breaking The Man Code: The Key To Unlocking His Heart”. She is also Founder of The Ultimate Woman LLC, A Coaching and Consulting company located in Atlanta, Georgia.


Shawnda emphasizes faith, soul searching and understanding one’s worth to help women attract quality men while avoiding “dating blind spots”. She made her mark by sharing her unique perspective in her no nonsense relationship advice videos on Youtube. With over 12 million views and nearly 100,000 subscribers, Shawnda Patterson has become one of the the Internet’s most sought after dating coaches.

When she’s not coaching clients, hosting her women’s retreat weekends or making Youtube videos, you can find her alongside her husband of eleven years and the couple’s three beautiful daughters.  Source


Instagram: @lifecoachshawn
YouTube: BronzeGoddess01/Life Coach Shawn

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Valentine’s Day Makeup Tutorial featuring MeeraMemeP + Discount Code from Sally Beauty Supply

Today I am featuring Indian YouTube beauty guru, Meme, aka MeeraMemeP, from United Kingdom. Below you will see her Valentine’s Day makeup tutorial, featuring Browns and Nudes for people who aren’t fond of  Pinks and Reds. Enjoy!

Valentine’s Day Makeup Tutorial | MeeraMemeP



Discount Code from Sally Beauty Supply!

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As my Valentine’s Day treat, shop at Sally Beauty Supply for your makeup items February 12-15th, and get 30% off $50 purchase!!   Use Discount Code #888363


Building Your Dynasty: Change up Your Valentine’s Day!

Valentine’s Day is a special day where many people shower their significant other with lovely gifts. Why not give Valentine’s Day is Remix and let your kiddos be your valentine?!

I wrote an article on HubPages entitled Valentine’s Day Remix : Include your Kids this Valentine’s Day! (Click the link to read the article).  I created this article right in time for Valentine’s Day. This day isn’t always a happy day and leaves stress to those who don’t have money for the expensive candy and flowers and often leaves a single person feeling low for not having a valentine. approach Valentines Day a little bit differently. Instead of Valentine’s Day to only be reserved for happy couples, let’s make it little less stressful for everyone by including the kiddos. Here is an summary of that article. I hope that you enjoy it and take away some ideas I provided for you.

Change the way you think of Valentine’s Day and Let Your Kiddos Be Your Valentine!



If you have kids, rather you are in a relationship or if you are single, change up your Valentine’s Day by putting the focus on what you love most, your kids.

This is an awesome way to create memories you and the kids will never forget. Make your kids feel special by showing your kiddos that they are #1 in your life.

Even if you are single and don’t have any kids, you can show love to a child that you know. Share this day with your little cousin, niece/nephew, grandchild or god-child.

Make it a tradition!

Fun things you can do with your kiddos on Valentine’s Day:

  • Valentine’s Day Lunch Box Notes: If you prepare your kid’s lunches for school, you can leave a Valentine’s note or even a little treat with their lunch.
  • Valentine’s Shirts to wear for school day.
  • Heart-shaped Post It Notes: Stick Post It on their door or on their bathroom mirror. Noting all the reasons you love them so.
  • Valentine’s Treat Bags with candy and toys and activities inside.
  • Valentine’s Day PJs: Great for them to wear at night with the babysitter while you are out with your love on a Valentine’s Date Nite.
  • Stay home with your kiddos. Watch Valentine’s Day themed movies, eat popcorn, candy, and even drink hot chocolate. You can even play some of your favorite board games together.
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    Awe Moments That Last a Life Time

    Imagine your kid’s faces opening up their mailboxes, lunches or receiving their Valentine Gifts on Valentine’s day. Kids have a way of showing how happy they are to receive anything from an adult they love and look up to. Sometimes they can be more grateful and appreciative than an adult.


    Read the complete article on HubPages

    Kay Smith, “Valentine’s Day Remix : Include your Kids this Valentine’s Day!”





    -Kay Smith

Building Your Dynasty: Always Wear Your Invisible Crown

Build your confidence knowing that your are a King or Queen in your own right. Believe in yourself. You are worth it. 

Hello Hustle Kings! Hello Hustle Queens!

I wrote an article on HubPages entitled “Self Confidence Check: Always Wear Your Invisible Crown. (Click the link to read the article).  I created this self-help article in hopes to helping one see their invisible crown. Here is an summary of that article. I hope that it encourages you to wear your invisible crown.

There are people all over the world, who don’t love themselves. Things like social media, TV, and even Radio can make you feel like you are small and don’t matter. 

Did you know that each of us were designed, and made for a particular purpose? We each have unique gifts and talents so there isn’t a reason why we should compare, or try to be like anyone else. 

You are important and you matter. There is no one on this green earth that is better than you. You are worthy. You are somebody.

You are a King & Queen, so wear that invisible Crown!

When I think of a King or Queen, I think of the crown. It should be a reminder that we each are beautifully made. We each have unique beauty that no one else could ever possess. “ 

Build your confidence knowing that your are a King or Queen in your own right. Believe in yourself. You are worth it.

Read the complete article on HubPages

Kay Smith, Self Confidence Check: Always Wear Your Invisible Crown. 


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Remind yourself of your invisible crown purchasing an item from my collection! Build your confidence knowing that your are a King or Queen in your own right. Believe in yourself. You are worth it.



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Do You Feel Like Your Prayers Are Not Getting Answered?

People depend on prayer to see them through a situation. Many feel as their prayers go unnoticed. In this article I provide reasons why a prayer doesn’t appear to be answered and what one could do to have better quality praying sessions.

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Before I go into this article, I want to make sure, are you in fact praying? Are you asking God for what it is you need? We should first ask, then seek, and knock for things we want in life.


“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7)



Praying for what we want isn’t enough. Don’t wait on God to grant your wish. It doesn’t work like that. Trust and believe that once you ask, if it’s for you, God will answer your prayer. But He won’t answer like how you think.



Before you ask, make sure you check your motives. Make sure your prayers are pure and never from a greedy, hurtful or negative place. God isn’t going to answer that prayer, girlfriend. Anything you ask for has got to be for the good of others as for yourself.

Ask yourself, “When I am asking, am I coming from a genuine place?”





Let me stress this: When taking action, make sure that the direction you take is guided by Him.

Don’t ask Him for something, wait for Him to answer your prayer, and when He gives you the green light to move forward, you go in the opposite path that He has created for you!

You must go in the path or direction He ordered you to take. How do you know that you are on the right path? You must never feel rushed or unsettled when you do something. When God is directing you, you will know it because….well you will just know! Have you ever had that feeling where you were like, “I don’t know why, but I know this is right.” That will be the feeling you will have. You will feel calm and self-assured without any doubts. Before making any decision, make sure that you have peace about anything before moving forward.


Ask yourself, “Am being led by God, or am I trying to make something happen on my own?”


If what you prayed about is in His plans for you, He will give the “tools” you need to bring that prayer to life. Those “tools” might be the right people, the right book you read, or he might put you in a situation that puts you in a place to receive. The important thing to know that anything in your life won’t happen as you want if you don’t have complete faith in Him and if you don’t take action accordingly to His plan. Not your own.





Many times your prayer isn’t being answered because He is waiting on you. God is like, “Trust me, I got your back. I am not going anywhere. I will be with you, every step of the way. I will give you the wisdom and the strength you need to carry you through, but it’s up to you to get up and do what you need to do. What are you waiting for?? Do it!”


Ask yourself, “Is God waiting on me to do my part by taking action?”


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Absolutely Loved It! | Mom of 3 Remixes Fetty Wap’s “Trap Queen”

When your mom was supposed to be a rapper, but she had kids! This video gives you a whole new meaning of a “Trap Queen”!

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Have you seen the video that has gone viral of a young mom who remixed Fetty Wap’s song “Trap Queen”? She definitely laced the track in a way mom’s from all over can relate. This is a must see and you gotta watch to the end because her little one’s are featured on the remix!! #thingsilove 

xoxo, Kay

Founder of Forever Queening

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